Difficult People; How Can We Deal With them?

I call them “SOP” (Source Of Pain)

Do you have this person in your life?

Is this person driving you nuts?

Ruining your day?

You Can Stop Difficult People From Ruining Our Day.

“Source of Pain” is not a figment of your imagination.

They exist everywhere.

How to deal with SOP

Ordinarily a difficult person will intentionally put you on the spot.

To make you the center of the blame.

The purpose is to make you appear the “cause”

The focus is on your mistakes and not in resolving the issue.

Turn the spotlight directed at the SOP

The easiest way is to ask question

Example:

SOP: You are stupid you call this work? This is garbage!

Response: Are you sure you want to make a scene and make a big issue?

SOP: “You’re so stupid.”

Response: “If you speak to me that way I think there’s no need to discuss things anymore. Is that what you want?

Let me know If we can talk about it nicely or I will have to leave?

Repeat it again so that the spotlight is directed at the SOP and not on you.

This will defeat the SOP power over you.

Walk away, but if the SOP is potentially destructive, you may “Not” turn your back at them as you step away. Be sure to keep your distance.

Take few steps backwards and say: I don’t want to cause a scene.

I am sorry if you feel that way but I don’t want to argue.

If they stop you may leave. But if they become more hysterical leave.

Call for security or police if the situation is no longer safe.

SOP and day destroyers will always be there like it or not. People who just stand there on your back pushing you to the ground. Wrapping you like a Shawarma, adding hot sauce in your head.

We must do our best to take our thoughts off these tormentors and direct our attention to how we can make ourselves better. Never expect these people to change. The only thing and situation you can change is yours.

Life is always going to hand us lemons and we know the saying about how you can turn it to something else.

Just bless these people with love and understanding in your head.

Think of it like; Once upon a time, that person was once a sweet and nice baby. Until this life turn him into some kind of day ruiner and a pain in the ass.

Often when others assault you, they are subconsciously prying up negative emotions in you. Their troubles needs to feed on your trouble to continue existing. If you manage to not concede in to the bad feeling, they will have no incentive to advance. Light repeals darkness.

Remain in the light no matter what. Bring the radiance of your love and kindness to everyone no matter what the SOP intention in ruining your life.

You are the only person who thinks inside your head.

No person can think for us if we do not allow it. We are the only person who think in our minds.




 






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