ARE YOU SURE THAT YOU WILL BE HAPPIER IF ONLY YOU HAD SOMEONE WHO LOVES YOU?

Are you sure that you will be happier If only you had someone who loves you?

Is that how it really works?

Intimate affairs continually seem to be the first concern for so many of us. Sadly, the chase for love doesn’t always appeal to the Ms and Mr Right, because our intentions for wanting love is uncertain.

What do you want in a relationship? What do you need from your partner?

There is a great difference between the need for love and being needy for love. When you are needy of love, it means you are lacking love and approval from the most important person you know. YOU

You can never develop love in your life by talking or complaining about being sad. Feeling sad only pushes people away nor you can improve a relationship in your life by complaining about the flaws of your partner. This only section attention to what is bad. Why not focus on solutions instead.

If you are not happy with yourself, how can you be happy with someone else?

For that reason, the first connection to improve is the one you have with yourself

If you are searching for more love, then you need to love yourself more.

This means no criticism, no objecting, no accusing, no placing responsibility at someone else. No whining and not choosing to feel sad. It means being happy with yourself in the now and selecting to think thoughts that makes you feel acceptable.

There is no “One size- fits all” way to experience love, for we all experience love in various ways. Some people need to feel love, through being caressed, pampered, being turned on.

Some of us continually needs validation in words such as, “do you miss me?” Do you really love me? Some of us nonetheless, need to hear the words
“I Love You.” Others need proof of love, like gifts, flowers, chocolates. 
Our chosen way of allowing love is usually the way we feel good showing it back.

My advise that you work on loving yourself continually. Establish the increasing love you have for yourself.

If you want to go from self pity to contentment thinking, then you need to think in condition of building a loving mental atmosphere in you and around you.

We should erase negative thoughts about love, and instead, think about sharing love, confirming, and acceptance with all that you meet.

When we are capable to provide contentment in your own needs, then you wont be so needy and attached. It has to do with how much you love yourself.

When you truly love who you are, you stay focused, quiet and confident, and your relationship at home as well as in the workplace are admirable.

You can find yourself responding to different situations and people in a much better way.

Things that once have been badly important wont seem quite as important anymore.

New people will come into our lives, and probably some old ones will leave us- this can be kind of terrifying at first -but it can also be surprisingly liberating.

Please feel free to share this to people with self issues.
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